How to skyrocket your libido!
For centuries sex has often been linked to something that only men desire, and the more sex you have or the more sexual partner’s you have the more of a man you are. This is highly discriminating and an unfair viewpoint because not only should women be allowed to enjoy sex as much, men should also not have this pressure to want sex more.
However, there are many men who have a low sex drive for reasons they do not understand which can be frustrating for hem as it can affect their development, social life, relationship with others as well as a relationship with their own body.
So what are the reasons men may have a low libido?
- Low Testosterone
- Medication
- RLS (Restless Leg Syndrome)
- Depression
- Chronic illness
- Sleep problem
- Stress or anxiety
- Ageing
- Sexual preference
- Attraction
- Erectile Dysfunction
What can we do to help our low libido?
There are luckily so many ways in which men can tackle their low sex drive and live the life they want to. What we need to remember is that there is actually no such thing as a “normal” sex drive; therefore you should not feel bad for not wanting sex less than your friends, peers or colleagues. However, if you suspect that it is particularly low then you should try these things;
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- Sensual massage – Sensual massages are the perfect way to enter a state of relaxation and let your mind and body surrender to pleasure. If the masseuse takes things slow and steady, taking care of your body, you will not feel pressured to become aroused. However, through her gentle strokes of sensitive areas and handling of your genitals, you will feel your sex drive increase unexpectedly.
- Roleplay – Roleplay is the perfect way to create an atmosphere in the bedroom if you are lacking libido you can get your sexual partner to dress up as something such as a sexy nurse, headmistress, naughty school girl or a dominatrix. This will make you excited as you get to enter into a world that’s not real and pretend you are somebody else. You can even try to dress up as well as this might give you sexual confidence. Why not try superman, or Mario, or even Gandalf? All of these are fun options to help you get your sex game.
- Showers and Baths – Not only are showers and baths extremely nourishing and relaxing, but they can also be extremely arousing. You could have a steamy shower with your lover, using scented bath salts to rub all over one another’s naked body. Use the vibration of the shower head to pleasure you partners genitals and use it for other creative, sexual fun. You could also fill up a bathtub with scented bubbles, having some soapy fun.
- Have sex in new places – everybody loves a little bit of fun and adventure, so why not try having sex in a place you never have before? This could be extremely exciting and thrilling, especially if you are having sex in a public place. Places such as restaurant bathrooms, changing rooms, parks, alleyways and nightclubs are ideal for this sexual danger that will drive you crazy and leave you wanting more.
- Watching porn with your partner – Watching porn with your partner can skyrocket your libido. Not only is it fun to watch people have sex, but you could also pull new ideas such as sexual positions and sexual locations and try them out yourself. Although sometimes porn sets unrealistic sexual standards, it is a good way to get you turned on and inspire you.
- Lingam massage – If you are thinking about getting an erotic massage to help battle your low sex drive, then a lingam massage is perfect for doing so. A lingam massage focuses solely on the penis, worshipping it and treating it like a true king. The masseuse will take time to massage and caress every single part of the penis from the shaft, foreskin, tip and also the testicles. This will be highly exhilarating for you and make you extremely aroused.
- Prostate massage – A prostate massage is also an amazing massage that will help you tackle your low libido as it is new and different. It is a whole new territory and you may be nervous to try it as it involves a finger up your bum, but trust me, it has so many health benefits for your body and mind.
- Meditation & Yoga – Meditation and Yoga are amazing ways to relax and clear your mind which can help with your mental health. It can reduce stress, anxiety and depression which can then make it easier for you to participate in sex. Once we feel happy and confident then it is easier for you be intimate with another person.
- Finding your type – Many men have a type, whether that be a physical thing or certain types of personality. Many people do not have a sex drive or enjoy sex as much when they cannot connect with the person physically or mentally. Therefore, it may be worth your while to only have sex with someone if you are truly attracted to them on both a physical and mental level. Sex will mean a lot more and it will also feel a whole lot more passionate.
As you can see, there are so many different ways for you to try overcoming any libido problems you may be experiencing. Although they might not cure you or work straight away, they are definitely step in the right direction to get you back on track and oozing with sex drive! slide into London pleasure parlour and pick from one adult massage service for your boost of libido and get back to showing your expertise, also book today by calling 02039165799.